Posts Tagged "time"

On maximizing the value of an invitation to Podcasters Paradise Cruise – or any other industry conference for that matter.

On maximizing the value of an invitation to Podcasters Paradise Cruise – or any other industry conference for that matter.

Just had an amazing call with THE John Lee Dumas to interview for the Podcaster’s Paradise Cruise in November, and it sparked this brainstorm. You have to Begin with the End in mind, as Stephen Covey put it.  With that in mind, here is my 10 list for today. 10 ways to make the Podcast Paradise Cruise  as meaningful as possible (don’t miss the boat): Get into the VIP Group – this could change your life.  See this video post from Nick Unsworth on why paying for ACCESS was one of the most critical steps he took in his career. He also had a post about being at a dinner during the Genius network weekend, and they did something like dinner tab roullete (involves one person picking up the check), and how that really changed his perspective and increased his gratitude.  Couldn’t find the link…maybe Nick will post it in the comments. 😉   Really understand why you’re there – what’s your WHY.  If you don’t have this piece figured out, chances are you didn’t make it past the interviews, but needless to say, the Why of your attendance will be critical when you’re tasked with deciding exactly how and with whom you spend your time during that week.  My answer to JLD on the #1 reason I want to go?  I want it to be a celebration of my breaking through my Podcastination and creating my freedom business this year.  No more waiting.  I’m grateful for the webinar this week that planted the seed, regardless of the cruise, b/c I’m more committed than ever to make this a reality.   Along with knowing what you want to get out of it, be clear (with yourself and anybody else who listens) about what you can bring to it!  In my interview with John, I told him I’d been thinking about their (very thoughtful) interveiw questions, in particular this one.  And, while at first I was self-deprecating (in my head – I beat myself up more than any bully ever tried to), I realized that, Hey, I haven’t paid to attend a conference (in my industry) in 3+ yrs!  Why?  Because I’ve been able to hustle my way into being a PRESENTER.  Presenters don’t pay to attend, AND you establish immediate credibility with the audience (which generally means, in my case, more leads at the conference).  So, in terms of what I can bring to the Cruise, I am very clear on how I can help others be better networkers, presenters, and hustlers (especially in this niche topic) in the world of offline selling – of yourself, your product, your vision.   Get to Miami/FLL early and hang out with...

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0004: On enjoying my children (and vice versa)

0004: On enjoying my children (and vice versa)

I recently took a new job that requires me to be in an office 10 miles from home much of the day.  Prior to this, I worked from home for nearly 2 yrs.  My boys became accustomed to Daddy being “in the office” meant I was just upstairs.  The proximity allowed by working from home granted me privileges I only now realize I took for granted.  This has led to my pondering lately just how can I be a more mindful father, and what are the tactical things I can do to ensure they have time with me.  And more, to ensure that I’m present for that time, and I’m enjoying my time with them as well. Here are a few ideas that come to mind: Put my phone upstairs in my office when I come home (good time to change out of work clothes as well), and only focus on my kids for at least the first half hour I get home try to write down every day (end of day most likely) one new thing I learned about or enjoyed about my children (hopefully all of them) that day Have intentional conversation with my wife, at least twice per week but goal every day, asking specific questions about what the kids are doing daily and what observations she has made regarding their growth, emotional maturity, intellectual curiosity, etc Read to them whenever they ask for it, anytime, unless it’s physically not possible for safety reasons structure your day so that you can be home before dark – hard to do in the winter, sure, but it allows for time outside with them. for my two boys, this is where they thrive,. Find that one thing they love and can only get from you, and never go a week without giving them that thing.  For one of mine it’s tickles (at least now in THIS stage of life), and for the other I’m struggling to identify it, though it’s probably something to do with cars and trains.  Use the 1:1 time with the wife to help determine this thing. Write them a letter – consider the advice you’d like to impart to them at major life milestones.  Type the letter out, or store it in a way that you’ll remember, and date it – intend to give it to them when the time comes. (the app I discussed y’day would help with this!) Become their superhero – think of your “special power” and secretly let them in on it; help them come up with one of their own.  come up with ways that the two of you ‘save the world’, help Mom, be amazing people, and use it...

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